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President's Letter
News & Notes
Happy Birthday
Comings & Goings
Tips for Tots
Recipe of the Month
President's Letter
Love is in the air...or it could be the lingering scent of that bottle of perfume that Cecilia got into and spilled on the carpet. Either way, this is the month of love and it couldn't have come at a better time. January seemed to be one endless month of cold; now we have something fun to look forward to for February!
Our month gets off to a rocking start with a concert. This is perfect for all our little music lovers out there! To kick off our Valentine’s fun, we’ll be throwing a heart-filled bash on the 13th, complete with snacks and crafts for the little ones. The fun continues through the month with several Valentine activities, as well as our usual assortment of themed storytimes, age group play dates and exciting adventures (in adult speak, trips).
And, of course, what Valentine’s would be complete without a little pampering? Our MNO this month is a trip to the spa followed by some relaxing, eating and chatting at the Chili’s across the street. Spa treatments start at 6 pm and reservations are needed. Even if you can’t make it for the spa part, please join us at the restaurant at 8 pm for some quality “just girls” time.
Crazy as this sounds, it is time to start thinking about elections. We need to get our nominating committee in place—we announce the names of those serving on the nominating committee at the March business meeting and, at the same time, issue a call for members who wish to run for elections. The nominating committee will announce the slate of officers at the April business meeting and our elections will be held in May. If you are interested in serving on this committee, please let me know as soon as possible.
In other news, the groundhog may indeed see his shadow this year, indicating a longer winter, as the Farmer's Almanac predicts a long, cold winter for those of us living in the East. So keep those long john’s handy and make sure you’re stocked up on hot cocoa and logs for the fire! Stay warm and have a happy Valentine’s Day!
Happy February!
Chrissie A.
News & Notes
Consignment Sale
We are looking into the possibility of co-hosting Grace Weekday Preschool’s Spring Consignment Sale. We have participated in their first two sales and both were relatively profitable, allowing us to donate over $300 to groups of our choice, including the Avon Breast Cancer Foundation and ECHO. And, volunteers and consignors are allowed to shop the sale a day before the general public. Our group has provided coordinators, volunteers and consignors to the last two sales and in order to participate in this upcoming sale, we would need: (i) someone willing to coordinate the sale on our end; and (ii) a few volunteers for setup and the day of the sale. If you think you would be interested in this, or just need more information, please contact Chrissie ASAP. Thanks!
Elections
It’s time to start thinking about elections again, as they will be held in May, 2008. Right now we need at least 5 volunteers to serve on the nominating committee. The nominating committee will call for volunteers to run for board positions and present the slate of officers at the April business meeting. We need the nominating committee to be filled BEFORE the March business meeting. Please let Chrissie know if you are interested in serving on the committee.
Special Events Coordinator
We are sad to say that Lara D. will no longer be able to serve as our Special Events Coordinator. Lara’s last event as SEC will be this month’s Valentine’s Party, after which Paige C. will be taking over as Special Events Coordinator. Thank you to Lara for all your hard work and to Paige for volunteering for the position! Jenny B. will continue to handle Mom’s Night Out—thanks Jenny, you’re doing a great job!
Infant Coordinator Needed
The coordinator guard is changing! Tonia’s son, Lisa F.’s daughter and Gail’s son will be moving up and out of their playgroups' age range (or already have), so as of April, we will be looking to fill the Infant Coordinator position. Playgroup coordinators collect events for their age group to submit to the President each month for the calendar. If you are interested, please contact Chrissie. Thanks to all the coordinators for their work!
The Great Backyard Bird Count: Feb. 15-18
In case you’re looking for a fun family activity to do over the weekend of 2/15-18, check out the Great Backyard Bird Count. This is a four-day event that engages bird watchers of all ages in counting birds to create a real-time snapshot of where the birds are cross the continent. Anyone can participate, from the littlest bird watchers to experts. It takes as little as 15 minutes: it’s free, fun and easy, and it helps the birds.
Happy Birthday to You!
Children
Caroline C. turns 6 on the 5th
Sophia S. turns 1 on the 7th
Sarah N. turns 6 on the 13th
Sean M. turns 1 on the 15th
Ada S. turns 1 on the 24th
Moms
Jenny B. – 9th
Gail M. – 14th
Lynn I. – 15th
Christine C. – 18th
Julie H. – 21st
Margaret H. – 22nd
Beth M. – 23rd
Beth B. – 27th
Comings and Goings
We’d like to welcome the following new members:
Megan C. and her daughter Sofia
We’d like to bid a fond farewell and send best wishes to
the following members:
Kathie B. and her children Katy, Sophia and Davis
Elyssa B. and her daughter Dori
Michelle L. and her daughter Paige
Tips for Tots
Practical advice from MOMS Club members.
Question of the Month: How do you stop your toddler from running away from you as you are trying to walk through the mall, choose books at the library, get from preschool into the car, etc.?
Advice: I have my boys hold onto something other than my hand like the stroller (helping to push is always fun for them), my coat pocket, my belt loop, the strap on the diaper bag/purse. This way they are still feeling “in control” and I do not have to hold their hand if my hands are already full. Also, we just have a rule that you MUST hold my hand or stay with me while crossing the street or parking lot. Teach them at an early age what to do when you get to a crosswalk or place where cars are crossing. Talk them through it each time you cross a street--“okay, look both ways, are there any cars coming?”--so that if they do happen to run away they will stop and look by habit.
Advice: We use "red light/green light." I allow my son to run up ahead a short distance and then call out red light. As I get closer then I yell green light and he takes off again. If he doesn't stop when I call red light then he must hold my hand and walk with me.
There are times when I play along with him by allowing him to call out the light colors. We do this when we are on a walk in the park or someplace where there aren't moving cars or water.
Advice: I used a stroller or cart in stores until my son was about 3 years old. As long as we were on the move, he stayed in the stroller. As he got older, I gave him snacks, toys, and books to play with while he was sitting. I would never had tried to walk through a retail establishment with him!
In parking lots, from the time he could walk well (probably around 18 months), I started letting him walk with me holding his hand. This was not optional. If he tried to get free, I'd pick him up. He didn't like this, so it was a consequence for him, not a reward. By the time he was about 2 ½ it became automatic for him to get out of the car and put his hand up for me to hold it. I also explained why he needed to do this - cars can't see him, they often drive too fast, etc. It takes awhile to sink in, but it did. Overall I used a stroller a lot - both as a means of transport and a consequence of not behaving properly. He had to get back in the stroller if he started wandering/running off. This was a big problem for us when a stroller or cart wasn't an option. Also, it helped to learn his tipping points. If he is tired, he listens less; so we don't run errands in the mid-afternoon (nap time). If we try to do more than 1 or 2 errands that aren't fun for him, his behavior goes down hill fast (which usually means running amok!). We plan accordingly. It does get better with consistent rules and consequences.
Advice: I simply yell "STOP, WAIT PLEASE" and that usually helps. Not yelling at the top of the lungs, just a firm tone, only as loud as necessary. It is key to stay calm and not scream "GET BACK HERE NOW!!!!!!" (which I've heard parents do and usually evokes a tantrum or crying fit from the child). Granted, we've been doing this one for quite awhile, so she knows I mean business. If she continues moving away from me, then I threaten with one warning that next time she doesn’t stay close we will leave the mall and go home to sit in our room. Believe me I have done it and it isn’t pretty, but only a couple of times has it really been needed!!
Advice: In the grocery store or other stores that have carts I give him two warnings and if he does it a third time he knows he will either get strapped into the cart up in the baby seat or down in the truck seat. That is the only time I use the straps so he knows I mean business, and he hates being strapped in anything. He stays there until we get to the car after shopping is finished.
Advice: When our daughter was between one and two, we actually used the "leash". I know that a lot of people find it controversial because it is too close to something we would do for our dogs - I felt that way too until I had a runner. It really gave us peace of mind when we were in airports or crowded places. She felt more independent then if she were in a stroller and we felt that she was safe. Target has cute "leashes" that look like animal back packs. Once our daughter got older we made it into a game because stop (i.e. red light green light) wasn't working. For example, when unloading from the car - how long can you stand on the white line, can you keep one hand on the door, etc. We have a great book about hands (Hands are not for Hitting) which describes things we need our hands for such as "keeping safe" - this is something that we discuss often and it seems to have helped (i.e. holding hands when crossing the street, in parking lot, etc.).
Recipe of the Month
Here is a recipe I found at www.foodnetwork.com. It sounds great for those of us that like to cook but are a bit on the lazy side (like me) – this one uses store bought pound cake! Try making it for your sweetheart on Valentine’s Day!
Raspberry Valentines
Recipe courtesy of Cooking Live
Episode: “Sweet Romance: Cooking Along”
Prep time – 10 minutes
Yield – 2 servings
1 store-bought pound cake
1 pint raspberries
2 tablespoons sugar
1/2 teaspoon fresh lemon juice
1/2 cup chilled whipping cream
Slice pound cake into 4 (1-inch) slices. With a medium-sized heart-shaped cookie cutter, cut out hearts from each slice of pound cake. Set aside.
In a medium bowl combine 1/2 the raspberries and the sugar. Crush berries with a fork. Add remaining raspberries to the bowl. Add the lemon juice and mix well. Whip chilled cream until the soft peak stage.
Using 2 dessert plates, place 1 heart on each plate. Pour 3/4 of the raspberry mixture over each cake. Cover cakes with another pound cake heart. Top with whipped cream and remaining raspberry mixture.
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December 2007
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